Where do Alice’s emotional contradictions come from?
I tell Alice.
I tell her, “It doesn’t matter if you’re droll or calculating. Everything has a light and a shadow, so it’s natural to have good parts and bad parts, isn’t it? I think it’s hiding and acting out your true self that makes it hard, painful, and painful.”
Alice says.
When I try to express my true self and tell people what I’m thinking, they hold me down, tell me I have to be an adult, and I can’t act freely. I end up being a fake version of myself.” And.
Every time Alice expressed her honest feelings, she was hurt by the denial of those around her.
As a result, she believed that it was her fault that people around her denied her.
So she hid her true self and tried to be loved by playing the role of who people thought she was.
But is Alice really bad? I don’t think so.
So I apologized for not having noticed that she had been hurt and explained that Alice had done nothing wrong. I explained that Alice had done nothing wrong.
Then Alice said, “Is that it? Maybe that’s why I couldn’t see the path…there should have been a path leading to the place where the flowers were…” Alice seemed to begin to understand something.
So I asked Alice, “Do you know how I can learn to see the path?” I asked Alice.
And Alice said, “I’ve always been childish, can’t I adapt to my surroundings?” I was so childish.
After all, he still seemed to understand, but he didn’t.
So I said to Alice
It’s okay to be childish. You don’t have to force yourself to fit in or put up with others. If you do that, you will never find your way. You will never meet someone who understands you. I said.
Then Alice said, “I haven’t had much luck with people who are a good match for me…” I decided to explain to her why she couldn’t meet anyone.
I don’t think so. If someone says they love you because you are acting, it doesn’t mean they love the real Alice, so there is no way you can trust them even if you have been with them for years. So you are acting because you want to be loved, but you don’t believe in the love shown to you by the other person at all, so you will always be in a parallel world.”
A parallel world indeed! Alice said in surprise.
So let’s stop playing to find someone who fits us and loves us,” I said to Alice. I said to Alice.
