When I do healing, I often think, “People are so afraid of being hurt (or denied).
Healing releases the fear, dislike, and anxiety of being hurt, but almost no one can release them in one session.
Most people release their fear of being hurt as they go through the stages.
I can only say that releasing the fear of being hurt does not make it okay to be hurt.
But we need to decrease our fear of getting hurt, because we only see others instead of ourselves because of our fear.
This is the cause of the other person axis.
So in order to get back to my own axis, I use healing to release my fear of being hurt.
The fear of becoming a stranger-axis is caused by loneliness and loneliness.
No one will help you, protect you, notice you…
It comes from a sense of loneliness and distrust of people.
The magnitude of distrust is greater for those who were angry or in denial when they honestly expressed their feelings (true feelings) to the adults around them, especially their parents.
When people are afraid of being hurt, they become only concerned about the color of others’ faces, what they say and do, and so on.
Just because we act on the color of others’ faces and what they say and do doesn’t mean we aren’t hurting.
We don’t realize it because it’s not a big wound, but our hearts are full of scrapes and cuts.
And you find yourself in a state of bleeding from various places in your mind.
Normally, a graze wound should be treated while the cut is still shallow, but those who are preoccupied with the fear of being hurt look only at others and do not notice their own emotional wounds.
And as time goes by, the mental scars become bigger and bigger, and when they are noticed, they manifest themselves as mental and physical ailments.
