After helping Mr. A organize his bag several times, he seemed to get the hang of it and started organizing his bag by himself.
They began to throw away unnecessary items and seemed to have carefully selected what to put in their bags, so they had fewer belongings.
As a result, the smaller tote bag seemed to feel too big, and the bag size was changed to a shoulder bag that was easier to carry and take out the contents.
My sessions are not only about healing, but also about the various events and changes that occurred during the period between sessions.
From there, I discuss with the client the details of the healing that needs to be done on that day.
Then one day, in the course of our conversation, Mr. A and I got to talking about smartphone games.
Mr. A told us that he plays a number of smartphone games and sometimes pays for them.
In Mr. A’s case, he said, “I don’t pay to get items because I like the game, but because I play the game to kill time and relieve stress, and the number of times I can play for free is fixed, so I pay to keep playing because it is troublesome.” This was the case.
Incidentally, Mr. A has no feelings about this game for killing time.
He was paying only because it was a hassle.
People who have no hope for the future tend to unconsciously act as if the present is all that matters, and Mr. A had been acting in this way for many years.
So we were told that sometimes the monthly cell phone bill was about 20,000 yen.
So I suggested, “Why don’t you stop charging for now?” I suggested.
If there is a game that I have a special attachment to and an item that I really want, I can understand paying for it, but in Mr. A’s case, I think he is just paying to kill time, so I say, “When the free game is over, I’ll play a different game. When I say, “I’ll play a different game when the free game is over,” Mr. A says, “That’s right, isn’t it? We decided to put an end to the situation where he knows he can’t stop playing.
