While some people blame themselves for everything, others blame others for everything.
People who blame others do not believe that they caused the problem.
But there are steps here.
People who think it’s all someone else’s fault.
People who think it might be a little bit their fault
People who think that I may be partly to blame, but I am not the only one.
The system is divided into the following categories.
People who believe that everything is someone else’s fault do not believe that they are to blame when something goes wrong.
These types of people always have the assumption that they are the victim and those around them are the perpetrators.
Therefore, even when it is your fault, you try to protect yourself by interpreting the situation as “someone else brought you down”.
People who think it might also be a little bit their fault will take precautions when problems arise.
He frequently uses the phrase, “I may have had my share of bad moments, but…”
People who use this word often don’t think they’re wrong.(・∀・)
But I use it because I know I will get angry if I don’t say so.
Why do you want to blame others, including those who think it may be their fault but not only mine, is to protect your own mind.
The moment they think they are at fault, their own hearts are hurt, so to avoid this, they switch the cause to the fault of others.
Some types of people who think others are to blame are those who have been denied self by their parents, but others who have been overprotected growing up are more likely to blame others.
Overprotective people have grown up being controlled by their parents.
Overprotective parents commonly blame others for any problems with their children in order to protect their own children in front of them.
In fact, this is not blaming others to protect the child, but blaming others to prevent the parents from hurting themselves, but the child does not know this.
So, as a result of growing up watching their parents’ backs, they have developed the belief that they are not to blame for anything they do, and when there is a problem, they think that others are to blame.
