What is the problem when the door to the heart is closed? The first thing is that you don’t know what you want to do with yourself.
We tend to think that we can know even if it is closed because it is our mind, but since it is closed, whatever our mind says does not reach the surface (consciousness).
Therefore, when making a judgment or decision, they are unable to decide and are lost.
When judging something or making a decision, people tend to think they are making a decision based on their thoughts.
But in reality, they are making decisions and judgments with their hearts.
The mind is ambiguous in its judgments and decisions.
The reason why they are ambiguous is that they make decisions based on their intuition and senses, which are based on how they feel at the moment, so their judgment and decisions are centered on whether the criteria are comfortable, what they like, what they enjoy, or what they think is interesting.
But if the door of the mind is closed, thoughts take its place.
The criteria for judgments and decisions that thoughts make are loss or gain for one’s future.
There is no idea (thought) of comfort or enjoyment there.
If you make judgments and decisions based on such criteria, the result is that “things will go wrong”.
Perhaps there may be some gains at first.
But who knows what the future holds?
Even if a decision or judgment is beneficial at the time it is made, it can often become detrimental over time.
When a different state of affairs occurs than expected, those who have made judgments and decisions with their hearts will see the different things as positive.
However, those who make judgments and decisions based on their thoughts will see different things as negative and let their dissatisfaction pile up in a big way.
It would be better if they could resolve their dissatisfaction on their own, but people whose hearts are closed are not good at resolving their own dissatisfaction either.
Because you don’t know what your heart wants, you don’t know how to resolve your dissatisfaction.
As a result, they try to satisfy their dissatisfaction with external objects and people instead of satisfying their own hearts.
But it is the same no matter what you do when the door to the heart is closed.
As a result, they are always in a state of dissatisfaction, which leads to spending, relationship problems, and many other problems.
