If you get into trouble in a relationship by not expressing your opinion, not many people learn to express their opinions afterwards.
Because for those who don’t give their opinions, they don’t because not giving their opinions is a way to be loved.
People who have been offended or denied by saying their thoughts as they are as children subconsciously believe that the best way to be loved is to do as their parents say.
As a result, the habit of “looking at the parent’s face and saying the answer that the parent likes” naturally develops.
As they grow up, they are converted from parents to others and “say the answer that others like.
However, if the other party is the type of person who clearly expresses his or her opinion, the relationship can be established simply by agreeing, but if the other party is the type of person who does not clearly express his or her opinion or the type of other person who seeks opinions, it is easy to get into a negative loop where no conclusion is reached no matter how long it takes, and it is easy to become embroiled in a dispute.
Also, when people who clearly express their opinions are close to you, it is easier to fall into a state of dependence because you do not have to express your own opinions.
This is because for those who do not express their opinions, those who clearly express their opinions become an easy existence, and this will eventually change into the belief that “if you make it easy for me, it means you are someone who gives me love”.
As a result, they tend to fall into a mysterious state of dependence (a kind of brainwashing) where they “do as they are told,” even if those around them are giving them advice. As a result, they tend to fall into a mysterious state of dependence (a kind of brainwashing).
