The book is a compilation of advice on love, marriage, work, and the future that Japanese celebrity and actress Dann Mitsu has given on her website, as well as a retrospective of her past, including her darkest days, according to her.
I have read many books compiling advice on problems, but after reading Dann Mitsu’s book, what I thought was that she answered with consideration for the person she was addressing.
I felt that Ms. Danmitsu’s personality was evident in the way she thought about the human feelings of the consultants and their problems and tried to solve them with this way of thinking and this way of thinking, rather than with a short-term solution. (It may take a little time, but…)” I felt that this way of answering the question showed her personality.
As part of my job, I consult with people on a daily basis, and I believe that answering written concerns is difficult, even though it may seem easy.
Because people basically only say what is convenient for them, and there are many things that cannot be understood unless you actually talk to them.(￣▽￣)
This is also true in the online world.
It is said that the number of righteous people in Japan has increased in an age when anyone can post anything on the Internet.
However, from my point of view, human beings are unconsciously judging creatures (not only the Japanese, but any people), so there is not much difference between now and the past.
I think it is just that the Internet has made it easier for people to assume that they are like this just by reading fragments of what they read, and to show off who they are by taking advantage of the fact that they are less likely to be exposed.
The only thing I can say is that the number of people who want to be affirmed and approved of may have increased as human relationships have become more tenuous than in the past.
There is light and there is darkness in human beings.
Some parts are driven by consciousness and some by unconsciousness.
I believe that justice is, in a sense, light and consciousness.
But no one can live only with light and consciousness.
There is always darkness, and the subconscious mind has more control over us than the conscious mind, so even if we try to be right, we cannot win over the emotions that the subconscious mind controls.
And from my point of view, righteousness and correctness are tricky.
Because rightness and correctness vary from position to position, situation to situation, and from person to person.
That is not to say that it is not right, or that it is okay to hurt people.
I am saying that right and wrong are different for each person.
Therefore, I believe that the most important thing is not to be swayed by the surroundings, but to be able to give a satisfactory answer within oneself.
For this purpose, I believe that the shortest way to solve your problems is to face yourself and talk with yourself thoroughly.
Because no matter how many people you consult with and how many different answers you receive, if you are not satisfied with the results, you will not take action.(￣▽￣)
