People whose hearts are closed are divided into two groups: those who blame themselves for the cause of problems when they occur and those who blame others.
If it were true, it would be on a case-by-case basis, but when that door is closed, the thinking moves ahead and only 0 or 100 answers are given.
People who blame themselves for everything in their relationships are, for lack of a better term, more likely to be licked by others.
People who think they are at fault for something are almost never assertive because they think they are at fault for something that is said.
As I have written before, for assertive types, people who are not assertive are good targets.
I can blame it all on people who don’t assert themselves.
People who do not assert themselves are just holding back when they are hurt because they feel bad, but the other person takes it in a different way.
What makes people think this way is the unconscious belief that “this person is harmless, so it doesn’t matter what I do to him.
It would be nice to think that this thought is one of the factors that make bullying worse.
But the world is not full of assertive people.
It may sound strange to say “normal people,” but how do people who are considerate of others (considerate people) feel about people they feel are wronged? “Please be honest and tell me how you feel. They think, “Tell me honestly what happened,” and “Tell me clearly how you feel.
Compassionate people try to move in the direction of helping basic people.
Instead of blaming even those who think they are in the wrong, I move to clarify the facts and somehow try not to hurt them, or if I do get hurt, I try to keep the wound shallow.
But those who think they are bad have been denied by their parents and others around them for no good reason since childhood, so they don’t believe that people around them think that way.
They would rather think that they are being “blamed” for whatever is said.
As a result, problems can arise when people are unable to communicate with each other (thoughts) and cause trouble for those who are compassionate.
